To leave our comfort zones appears to be a constant thing we are told when things are not working out for us. Why not step out of your familiar terrain? Why not launch yourself out et al. We hear this all the time, and we just nod our heads and say, oh yes, very well indeed. Without an iota of what this portrays or means. I will not elaborate on this scientifically but would tackle it from a lay man’s perspective.
Getting out of existing routines is a big problem because as humans, we are creatures of habit. We follow existing norms and rules, eat the same food, drink the same coffee because we are used to those things. Well, the world is changing fast and clinging to the good old ways, might not be so favourable anymore. Continue reading
It was a cold winter night when darkness has overshadowed light. Serenity was at its peak and the whole house enjoyed a soothing peacefulness.
There was no ambient audible sound and the obvious silence was loud in the room that even the drop of a pin can pierce through the silence.
A cup of tea lay by her bed-side while little Adaeze looked up at her mom. Continue reading
My Focus Word For Today Is Dilly-Dallying:
The worst that can happen to a PERSON is not taking a decision. It’s a disaster for anyone to live life through indecisions. Are you always torn between what to say, what to do, how to react, how to move, what to wear, what to eat…? Do you have a big problem weighing options endlessly and tossing between indecisions? When you keep dilly-dallying, you waste too much precious time. It is harmful to be in that state of hesitations and aimless wandering. Continue reading
I wish to apologize to you, who has made a comment here that I did not answer right away or eventually did not reply to.
This also goes to anyone who has given me an award in the past which I acknowledged but failed to undertake. Continue reading
Welcome to a beautiful week.
I wish the best for you all this week.
You always knew that one day you would stand up for yourself.
That one day you would raise the standard of your life.
That one day you would say to yourself “enough with this bullshit”.
You might as well make today that day. – Steve Maraboli.
Have a productive week and a wonderful day. 🙂
Peace and Love!
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Your Voice Must Be Heard.
Any attempt to relegate you to the background will not be acceptable. Any attempt to limit you from marching forward will not be tolerated. Enough of the stereotyped prison that has caged you for too long. Enough of the restrictive mould that has hindered your progress. Enough of the cultural and traditional norms that erode your self-esteem. Enough of the sexual harassments and violence and rape that you’ve been subjected to. Enough of the taboos that trail your womanhood. Enough of the abuse on your person. You’ve been slapped many times. Beaten uncountable times. Manipulated several times. Dehumanised again and again. Continue reading
When trust is broken, love begins to wane. How true is this assertion?
What does trust exactly means in a relationship?
I’d like to define “Trust” as the firm belief in the integrity and character of a person.
Trust is a key component in building a healthy relationship with people. You think or believe they are reliable. You have confidence in them and you feel secure with them physically or emotionally. Continue reading
The worst that can happen to a PERSON is not taking a decision. It’s a disaster for anyone.
Some people are tenacious about what they want while some are forever contemplating on what they want. There lies the difference in lifestyles. To make progress in life, indecisiveness has to be thrown out of the window. Continue reading