The worst that can happen to a PERSON is not taking a decision. It’s a disaster for anyone to live life through indecisions. Are you always torn between what to say, what to do, how to react, how to move, what to wear, what to eat…? Do you have a big problem weighing options endlessly and tossing between indecisions? When you keep dilly-dallying, you waste too much precious time. It is harmful to be in that state of hesitations and aimless wandering. Continue reading →
Survival is a process. May every day be a warm embrace; a hug in the rain. The scent of fried plantain. The gentle breeze licking off the sweat on your forehead, or the voice of that person who loves you even on the days, you forget to love yourself. When you can’t get up, those days when there’s a mountain sitting on your chest, remember that opening your eyes is victory. Taking a breath is victory. When you wail call your name. Not one name but all your names; the names of the multitude you carry wrapped together like a ball of yarn and tucked in the farthest corners of your psyche. Forgive yourself for the mistakes you made when you thought you knew but had no clue. Forgive and be kind. To you.
It’s a glowing Saturday morning here in my little abode. I’ve just returned from the gym and the only thing on my mind as I walked back home was to remind us again that He is always there for us. I hope I’d reiterate the truth to us, in case we’ve lost some hope that He makes a way, where there seems to be no way. Continue reading →