My Views About LOVE:
I believe that LOVE is only complex to blind minds. Even with eyes wide closed you can still feel the murmur, the fragrance, the sound, the magic of love around you. We are humans. We will always misbehave one way or the other either right or wrong in a relationship. But, what will make the relationship last is for one of the partners to overlook the other’s misbehaviour for the sake of love. Certainly, there will always be friction in a relationship but the ability to manage it well determines the longevity of such a union.
Love is very complicated no doubt. It’s such a complex phenomenon yet so beautiful if one finds it – true love at that. A love that can withstand all the frictions that encroach on the peace in most relationships. No two people are perfect but once you desire a lasting relationship, then be ready to pay the price by being committed, understanding and patient. This means that one must not allow the flaws to destroy the bond and friendship that exist with one’s partner.
This is my observation: Oftentimes, we know who loves us but, we go for those we love who might not really love us in return. (My personal viewpoint)
We all know what love is but, we rather choose lust because of physical qualities and materialistic gains. Whereas, we ought to look beyond the physical attributes if we truly desire sincere love.
God is love and not complex, it is our minds and thought processes that are complex.
God has assigned someone to everyone. Oh yes, there is a partner for everyone. But you’ve got to discern and be open-minded to notice this love when you cross path.
Relationships suffer friction and divorce is on the increase because true LOVE is missing in today’s world. Sadly, people don’t truly love their partners anymore. They love the *GOLD* instead.
I stumbled upon these two writings of the Late Bob Marley concerning love and thought to share it with us.
For The Man:
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect far more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” – Bob Marley
For The Woman:
“You may not be her first, her last… She loved before, she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect – you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break – her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.” – Bob Marley
What do you think about the above assertions by Bob Marley?
What is your perception about LOVE?
Peace and Love!
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