Many people are having very challenging experiences in their relationships. Why? Because they are suffering as a result of a ‘bad’ partner. A partner who is abusive. In case you find yourself in such a toxic relationship and are not sure what to do… I think you should take a good time to ponder over this and make a change as fast as you can.
If you are in an abusive marriage or relationship and are scared of making a change because you are afraid of staying without a partner… I tell you, you will remain sad and unhappy for a long time. Don’t be scared of the unknown. Don’t ever think you will not find anyone else. And don’t even think that the next relationship might be worse than what you have now. No! Be positive in your thoughts and make a wise decision today.
Have you ever also wondered or considered the fact that the next relationship might be far better than the abusive one you are in? Have you ever thought that the next one might just be a dream come true for you? So what if the next woman/man is better? What if I stayed single for a moment and try to redefine my perspectives? What if…? You never know until you take the plunge. You never know until you make the wise decision and change that situation.
Change is only possible when you let it in. It is true that change can be scary, but it is inevitable if any meaningful thing is to be achieved in life. Change is scary. Letting go is difficult but sometimes, we need to let go to experience new things into our lives.
Now, let’s look at it from this perspective of a little child. If you give a child a gift, for example a pack of biscuits, the child opens his/her hand to receive from you. And in opening that hand, they let go of whatever they have in that hand just so they can accept your offer. It is applicable in our adult lives too. If God wants to give you something better, you need to open your hands to receive it. He will not force you to take it… there must be a letting go for a new thing to come in.
Change is good for progress and improvement in life. Toxic relationships and the likes are time wasters and killers… learn to extricate yourself from really toxic and bad situations. Learn to let go of bad habits, attitudes and people who do not increase you in anyway. People who rather take away from you, your happiness, and your freedom by encroaching on your space and locking you out of something better in life.
If you make that change for the better, I assure you that it will be tough initially. But things will get better and better. You will draw on strengths that you did not think you possessed. And you will survive. And you will thrive. And you will be a success story.
Change is scary. Yes it is.
But it is better than complacency and redundancy.
And it is better to leave and change that toxic relationship before it is too late.
I pray that you will have the strength and wisdom to make the right choice.
Peace and Love!
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